what is it with men??!

there's this thing with me, i cringe at the sight of a guy carrying his gf's handbag in public..uurrggh sick!! dude, i know you're trying to be a gentleman and all, but come on, there are soooooooooo many other ways of showing that ok.. to me, the whole act of helping the gf to carry the handbag is equal to the fact the gf is DOMINATING the guy.. :P yes, guys are suppose to protect the safety of their gfs, but handbags??puhleez, thats soo not the way!!

the other day, i came to know that a guy friend of mine who was recently engaged, "ended" a friendship with one of his close girl friend because the fiance asked him to do so.. errkk?? how dumb is that??! tau la sayang tunang kan, but do you have to ditch an old friend? dude, dont you have a mind of your own? think and take control lar.. it's so sad to see a MAN who suddenly lose control of his life over a woman, just like that.. and it's embarassing for me as a woman, to know that another woman can be that selfish and insecure.. so what if he remains in touch with his old friend? dont you have guy friends yourself?dont you wanna be able to still keep in touch with them even after you get married? just think about it, even if your boyfriend or fiance or husband still keep in touch with their girl friends whom they've known long before they know you, that would not change the fact that they still love you.. stop being so insecure ! memalukan je ok.. i couldnt help but shudder at the thought of a friendship that has to come to an end because someone's being overly paranoid and insecure.. it's not worth it people.. men, be in control please :p