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Tuesday, July 15, 2008

Letting Go - Part II


I've finally got rid of his stuff yesterday.. I dropped it off at his sister's place.. Though I was shivering as I put all the stuff away.. especially the ring (which was my birthday present this year), I knew it was what I had to do.. Frankly, I actually felt good after that.. Ok, maybe good is such a big word.. RELIEVED is more appropriate.. :)

I was very touched with what his sister said to me.. she said, " be strong, no reason for you to be sad..HE wasnt worth it and that I should find someone who loves and appreciates me.." To hear THAT from his own big sister meant a lot to me..:) I remember that his mom even said that she'll pray I'll find a much better guy..I guess when you hear that coming from his own family members, it sorta lifted you up a bit.. makes you feel appreciated..

I keep telling myself enough is enough.. if he doesnt see me for who I am then it is NOT worth it at all.. I deserve better.. !LOL Perhaps, one fine day..I will really find my other half....:)

4 comments:

azahar said...

Be strong my daughter. I know that you are not like many other girls who crumbles into oblivion when her bf or whatever left her...

I knew something must be wrong with you two when you suddenly asked me to delete his hp no.

Still remember a wise old man (my senior) words: Remember, you are blessed with all the good characters that will make you favorite target of mother-in-laws-to-be. It applies to you too my daughter...

Dee said...

Thank you abah,, dat means a lot:)

RoyalTLady said...

Hey pretty face,

Actually there was no need to return anything. They all belonged to you. Did he return anything that you gave him?

Hey, great! You have such a sporting dad who gives moral support.

He does look a lot different from the classmate in 1966 that I could remember in my alma matter.AND you have such a beautiful mom.

Dee said...

Hah..he doesnt even remember my existence on this earth Aunty..how could he remember to at least return all my pics(which is all that I'm hoping for)..I couldnt be bothered anymore, really:)

And yes, of course my dad looks different! He's O.L.D oredi la Aunty.hehe

oh yeah, thanks for the compliments for my mom..i'm sure she'll be flattered to know this!she still look great at her age i guess:)